Every man has a single vision in his mind. The vision though transparent has had an effect so opaque. Yes, the vision controversial to the ultimate question – “Survival of the fittest”. These days, every child is being brought up with words “You have to survive in this competitive world…” The words are so strong that man fails to learn the other qualities of life. One of them is ‘Patience’. Some even ask “Has man completely lost his patience?”. Yes I am afraid it will be true. A man is gifted with a present that wasn’t given to any other creature – Thinking power. The way how he uses it is the question. Generally, a man’s tendency is to trigger the things that comes in his first thought, acting immediately to the cruelties of mind. If man had given a second thought, the world wouldn’t have unleashed the nuclear forces and it wouldn’t have suffered never-ending crisis.
“One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of
impatience may ruin a whole life.” – Chinese ProverbThe time when one can feel the wrath of a man is when he has completely lost his patience. Ofcourse there are things that one has to lose if he has to be patient. But the reward is great and unexpected. One may ask “Why should I lose in order to gain?” Remember, you are gaining a quality of wisdom and you are losing nothing but a disease that threatens the future of mankind – Inhumanity.
“We could never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world.” – Helen Keller.
Imagine a crowd rushing and fighting themselves to attain the unreachable. Imagine a man who has successfully fought the crowd and reached the target. So is he smart? Is he brave? Has he shown the instinct to survive in this world not even caring about the people he has just smashed and pushed in order to reach the target? Now imagine a man who is standing at the back and waiting for his chance not intending to hurt anyone. Will he reach the target? No one knows. But what do you call him? Lazy? Coward? Not fit to survive in this world? It is for you to decide. But what I would say is that the latter has attained a quality that the first person hasn’t got even in the deeper corners of his heart – Humanity. If that is not there, then he is not fit to be a human. Then who cares about Darwinism if he is not fit to be a human???
Here are some ways to be patient though you may find some silly. If you had reached the limits of your patience, you may follow these. Trust me!
1. Have you ever been asked to count from 1 to 100 if you get angry? I am sure you would have been asked. Yes its magically true. Counting 1 to 100 diverts your mind to some simple task making it to forget whatever happened.
2. Just sit comfortably on a chair, relax yourself, twist your neck slowly. Then sitting straight, take a deep breath and slowly release. I recommend this when you are in an exam hall tensed up.
3. Sit in the basic asana position on the floor, the way Lord Buddha is seated. Close your eyes and divert all your thoughts to darkness. Then imagine a speck of light in the darkness. The more intense it is, the more you are concentrating. Revolve your thoughts around the light. Do this for ten minutes and you had just meditated. Yes, its the basic meditation where the light should be thought as your soul. This would do good with very light music. Cassettes for meditation are available.
Remember if Gandhiji wasn’t patient enough, India wouldn’t have got freedom. “A world without patience is a world without water”.
“Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish.” – John Quincy Adams
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